Chemotherapy

My dad had a bowl cancer operation 7 weeks ago . He was advised he would be in hospital for 2 weeks but stayed in for 6 weeks due to an infection . He became ill and lost eeight ( now only 9.5 stones ) . We were told that chemotherapy must happen after the operation as an attempt to ensure no return of cancer . We took the hospital yesterday and could only walk a few steps and the rest was by wheel chair . The doctor said he was not strong enough to have chemotherapy as it would take my father "significantly backward" . We accepted that but we are not sure that if this is right - my father has just said to me that he feels like he has been "ditched"

what are the pros and cons of having or not having chemotherapy after a bowl cancer op . I assume you will say please chat the local encology doctor but we would like a second opinion 

  • Welcome to Cancer Chat sjfahey although I'm sorry to hear that your dad wasn't able to have the chemo after his operation.

    Did the doctors say there would be a chance for your dad to have the chemo once he got stronger or provide other treatment options? As you have mentioned above it would be a good idea to discuss the pros and cons with his medical team but for a general overview our cancer nurses may be able to help. You can give them a call on their freephone number 0808 800 4040, Monday - Friday between 9a.m - 5p.m.

    I hope your dad's strength returns soon sjfahey. 

    All the best, 

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

  • Hi,

    This is difficult, but many of us have been through this. Your Dad hasn't been ditched, but his care team need to consider all the pros and cons. Not to put too fine a point on it, they need to consider whether he'd be able to survive the chemo. It would be pointless to kill off the cancer, if the chemo were to shorten his life more than the cancer would have. 

    Hopefully once his physical condition improves the balance will shift the other way and chemo will be viable. We went brought something similar with my Mum a few years ago and I've no doubt I'll reach a similar stage in my own cancer pathway at some time n the future. I've also had friends who have been in a similar situation who fought off the infection, had the chemo and lived to fight another day. Annoyingly, we never know how these things will turn out, all we can do is hope for the best.

    Best wishes

    Dave