Hello Jean,

A big welcome to our forum! Very sorry to hear about what his happening at the moment with your son's future mother in law. It must be really hard for his girlfriend and for him too. He seems to be a very caring person and to want to be there for his girlfriend during this difficult time.

It's very difficult to say what the best decision would be in this case as it will depend very much on personal factors and how your son is feeling at the moment and whether he feels he really needs this time off at the moment. Perhaps the best thing to do would be just to be there for him, listen to him and support him in whatever decision he takes. The most important thing is his well-being and I am sure he will appreciate your concern and support during this difficult time.

I hope you will also get some suggestions on this from our forum members who may have experienced a similar situation.

Best wishes,

Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator