Liver cancer that has metastasized

My husband is dying of liver cancer.  He is Stage 4 and is not a candidate for chemotherapy.  He is on hospice but last week I couldn't bear watching him slip away so I took him to a different hospital hoping to get a second opinion.  His kidneys were shutting down but with IV fluids they managed to get him back talking and eating.  Now a week later he is back home on hospice and the news is still the same.  The doctors say there is nothing more they can do.  He has not urinated now in over 24 hours, barely eating and his voice is shaky.  He told me yesterday when he is gone to take care of myself which made me cry.  This is so difficult and I have no support from his family who are in denial that he is dying.

  • Hi Jacqbur Thats an awfully sad story, im really sorry to hear whats happening to you and your husband. He soundly like a wonderful person that loves you pretty much. Acceptance without losing hope and enjoying life to the fullest despite its transient nature. You need to make his journey even better and create more happy memories despite the overwhelming ordeal. I hope you find enough strength to carry on to whatever fate may lead you both.
  • Hi, I'm sorry for your situation. It sounds like you're coping of sorts although you do need support yourself. Families often find it hard to express how they feel. Have you contacted Macmillan? They are able to help and can offer you support through various options. This all seems so dreadful right now but support can help both you, and his family. All the very best.