Hi was just after a bit of advice..my friend was diagnosed with Lymphoma last year and had his spleen removed in October. he was given the all clear shortly after this but has now since started losing weight rapidly again and waiting further tests and xrays to determine the cause of this..
I have been there for him offering late night online chats, inviting him for coffee, texting and phone calls etc and trying to keep as much positivity going throughout this..but now he has hit this low spell and lost weight again he is shutting everyone out, not coming for coffee, removed himself from soical media and not really engaging.
While I am giving him and respecting the space he obviously needs how do I help him and be there for him without sounding like a broken record every time I text or speak to him saying "im here if you need me/want to talk" or "you know where I am" etc? Just want him to know that he isnt alone and doensnt have to go thru it by himself.
