Hi, my mom was diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer last November. She had 8 rounds of chemo, surgery to very the areas from her breast and under her armpit as it had spread and also she had radiotherapy 15 times. In June 2016 my mom was given the all clear. Please have faith, wake up every morning and have faith. I didn't know much about cancer before now, but I do know that a families love courage and support is more strong than the illness, even in the worst kind of cases. Please have faith and stay strong, I'm sure you will give your mom all the love she's deserve, but please don't even think it is your fault, I thought the same but the truth is, something like this is inevitable. If you ever need anyone, message me. Stay strong xxxx