So I've known my Dad has ahd cancer for about 18 months. I wont get into it all but basically was a lot of misdiagnosis which led to it spreading and being terminal. Up til about 3 weeks ago he was getting about just fine and you'd never really have noticed. Now it's getting worse and he's in hospital getting palliative care. Just very hard seeing someone go from seemingly ok to very weak. the Dr says he may only have a few months left. To top it off I'm in the military trying to get based in Glasgow where my Dad is asap but I don't know what will happen.
Like everyone else in these forums I guess I don't know how to act or what to say to my Dad. I'm single so don't go home to a partner in the evening and struggle to just bring up the topic with my mates. I guess I just wana hear everyone elses experiences and how they cope and deal with it. Just feels like a constant sickness in the pit of the stomach that you know won't get any better.
Very strange posting here but figure it's worth a go.
