Hi tafoody sorry to read about you mum you not alone on here there so many people going though silmer situation. Im been struggling last few days my mother is terminal  bowel cancer she was diagnosed two ago she went for routine scan in July. They found mass turned out it was on here bowel few weeks ago she was told it's inoperable they offered chemo the same one she had before but it made her to I'll. She asked is there anything else can try they said no. It's nightmare now mother was rushed in hospital Friday morning she started bleeding bad they told here was from here bowel. She had tested done she been waiting to see gynecologist only this morning she seen one they told here they don't think is cancer she got to have scan to find out where the bleeding from and they can treat here it been so frightened my mother 72 . It make me mad they can treat her for this but not the cancer. I feel same you trying to be strong but in side it killing you I'm walking around the last few day like in bubble  I can't think straight I can't take what happen in it seems is happen so quickly and there nothing anyone can do only be there. I'm trying to spend  as much time with my mother as possible it's so hard for anyone one who going though silmer situation. It's so hard it's heart breaking take care .