Hi,

i don't really know how to start this so here we go a close friend and work colluege has very very recently been diagnosed with terminal cancer... she's been told she has 6 months to a year. it happened all very quickly and was a massive shock to us all. I am still in shock and I don't really think it's sunk in I'm around people who are constently crying and I just can't. I work closely  with her everyday and she is still continuing to come to work as that's what she wants and I think it's what we all want so we can be close to her. The thing is I'm trying to be there for her and stuff but I'm struggling to manage my own emotions which is so selfish I know, like what do I say to her? What can I say? I know nothing I say will make anything better but I just want to be able to say something to make this a little easier on her... but I guess I'm still hoping for some miracle which I know is not going to happen