OK!!!! let's all not be all sad here. My dad has lung cancer and kills me inside sooo much. 2 years chemo then ok for a year then back again. More of that stuff just started again. Extremely upsetting to see my more than life big man being sick . But guys I have done this before with my gf dad . Thing is.....it is *** but you can't let it bring you as a person down. Don't mull over the situation be positive I know it's bloody hard but remember your love is why you care