Hello , sorry to hear about your mum x my father in law has just been diagnosed with stomach cancer he too doesnt know if it's spread , I am trying to stay up beat for him but it's hard to comprehend , the fact your mum has you is going to be of great comfort it's amazing the strength you can have to support somebody you love through this I too am wishing we could take it all away xx I will keep you and your mum in my thoughts and hope all goes well her xx