hello all i am an eighty year old male i had colon cancer nine years ago but had my colon removed and have been ok sinse but now more problems have come up ,my wife had a long stay in hospital with chronic thromboembolic pulmonary not going into details they opperated on her and she recovered quiet well ,and was doing ok on a visit to check over they found she had mds ,iwas asked to go and see the doctor he told me it could not be cured the next stage would be full blown lekemia which i am afraid has begun shehas gone down hill so now there is not much she can do for herself ,on the same day i was told about mywife i was informed that i had lung cancer picked up after a check over ,i have started on a six week course of radiotherapy , my wife has weekly visits to hospital  and needs regular transfusions ,the big problem i have is trying to coordinate our visits as i am her sole carer and only means of transport we visit differant hospitals which are sixty miles apart but it seems as if all our appontments are  made at the same time i do get a little from a grandaughter but she has full time work and its not fair to put any onus on her ,

                                                     any sugestions