Hello, my mother recently had a brain tumour and is in remission but is still struggling to look after herself, I'm 22 and had to turn down job offers in order to care for her on top of this my boyfriend has bipolar type 2 and suffers from mood swings. My mother patner is never around and makes mine and my boyfriends life a misery at home. My brothers and sisters don't really help out but are always judging me. At the moment I feel at the end of my rope I just want to leave to make my boyfriend happy but I know I can't. Any advice on how to cope with this situation.