My husband was diagnosed with Cancer in March 2016 he has had four sessions of Chemotherapy and now may have to have a liver operation to remove secondry cancer cells. Our lives have changed so much and it has not been easy watching the side effects of the treatment. I realise that no matter what I want to happen I can't change the situation and all I can do is be supportive, kind and be there for him. I try to take time for myself as well to have some happiness with my family and friends so I am able to cope better when my hubby feels down or upset. Illness is not something we would wish on anyone young or old but it is a fact of life and all we can do is be there for each other...... helping each other to cope with what this life throws at us. I try to think of this situation as a lesson to give me more compassion, tolerance and understanding and I try to value what positives come with it.....because there is always some good somewhere in every experience if we look for it....This is how I treat cancer