Hello everyone. 

Am a bit worried and down,i just started dating a guy 2months ago and his mum is been diagnosed with breast cancer on both,hence it has to been taking off....just before she went on admission my boyfriend told him a bit about me...and since then i always ask after her...the operation was successful though have not been to the hospital to see her but hav been supporting my boyfriend emotionally and spiritually, I did ask me if i could come see her in the hospital, but he said he dpoke to the mum about it and she said when she's back home..I dont know what to say to her when i eventually meet her,considering the fact that she's just been discharged from the hospital, how dont know how to be of help to her..so far so good i must say that my boyfriend and I are ok with each other and his other folks are eager to meet me as well,but i dont feel too goid about it,i guess am to emotional about it cos have lost loved ones to cancer and i dont want that to happen to his mum not when am just starting a relationship with his son...please advice....thanks