Hi and welcome to the forum.  I am sorry to hear about your husbands diagnosis and know how worrying this is for the whole family.

I would have to ask why he feels so adverse to chemo?  I have been on it for 4yrs constantly now and mainly manage really well.  Chemo could make a massive difference to his prognosis as many members here will verify and he can always halt treatment if he feels that is what he wants to do.

Personally, I would give it a go and not make such an important decision so soon.

Let us know how you are all getting on and the best of luck.  Much luck. X