My nan has recently been diagnosed with cancer in the bowel, goulbladder and now lungs... Ther is talk it could be in the brain but my nan would rather not have the brain scan... There has been no major symptoms for this apart from NYE 2016 she had bad diorrea and sickness and wasn't eating or drinking she was then getting very de-hydrated... Myself and my parents are the closest members of the family to her and was trying to help and called the doctors out twice and was told it was a bug and for her to take tablets to calm her stomach... They did take a still sample but still not much was done my dad then decided enough was enough after over 2 weeks and called for an ambulance, she then had tests and was put on drips and a ward... And they said she was able to go home after 3/4 days... Then 3 days later she found herself nearly collapsed and couldn't breathe... My dad got to her as quick as he could and called for an ambulance... She then was having all tests again made and another week later we have been told of her diagnoses we are all so upset and I am finding it hard, to know that her time may be up soon and she is starting to deterate a lot, i am the closest grandchild out of 4 and have lived with her twice previously and do a lot for her, but just would like any help or advice on what to say or what to do?