Rainbow required

Hi,

I Am new to this and have Mum with terminal cancer of Pancreas, stomach and bowel/appendix area .

She cant eat and  is a walking skeliton as shes lost so much weight, she Is living on complan and ice cream.  

Feel so helpless unclued  and need  to find the end of a rainbow or ray of light .

Had no info support or anything.

Chemo is not an option as its too late and mums getting weaker by the  day .

Its Taking its toll on us all  and I'm so frustrated as to what to do for the best for her.

 Please  help .

  • Hi,

    Really sorry that you find yourself here. It sounds to me as if your mother may be getting towards the end of the journey?

    What's your circunstances? is she living at home? with you? in a hospice?

    I think you need to think about what your objectives are for her. I'd suggest that you start to think about how you can make her passing as good as possible.

    Is she suffering any pain problems - that's the first thing to get on top of but it sounds as if perhaps a hospice might be best maybe even for a time to give you a bit of a break.

    Are you in touch with McMillan ( http://www.macmillan.org.uk/ ) if not give them a ring and they can probably help you get something like that organised.

     

    Best of luck

    Graham