Hi Jane - I am sorry to hear that your husband has been diagnosed with cancer.  It must be a very difficult time for all of your family.  I am the 'patient' in our family and my husband tells me that it is very frustrating not being able to do anything to make it all go away.

Your hubbie will need your support but you will also need someone to help you with that too.  I hope you have friends and family around who can give you both the love and support you will both need with all the uncertainties you face.

If you are worried about anything in particular, please remember that many here will understand and it is a place to share and meet others in the same situation who can swap ideas and feelings and help each other.  Also the nurses here are brilliant with information and can be contacted on their freephone number at the bottom of the page.

Please dont suffer alone with your thoughts and let us know how you are doing from time to time.

Much love and best wishes to you and your husband x