Hi Gemman

My husband was diagnosed Sept 2014 with Non small cell stage 4 squamas cell carcinoma - unknown primary - possibly lung.  The tumor was in his upper chest and he went through radiation & aggresive chemo.  His last petscan showed a nodule in the lung.   I understand your struggle, I am still struggling to come to the realization that he was given 3-5 yrs.  I was told to not concentrate on the "time" but it is hard not to once that is in your head.  I hope and pray your Mother's treatment helps her to have a good quality of life.