Hello there and welcome to the forum.I'm so sorry that your two loved ones have been diagnosed with cancer. No wonder you are overcome with grief. My heart goes out to you at this terrible time. It must be very hard for you to think of losing your husband and now perhaps your only child. I have lost several members of my family to cancer and I have cancer now myself. It certainly is a terrible disease. Parents are not supposed to bury their children and when they do, it adds a whole new dimension to that grief. I lost my only son to suicide almost 12 years ago. We don't ever recover from that kind of loss; we do learn to live with it though as hard as that is. Even yet, I tear up when I hear of another parent losing a child because it puts me right back in that place when my son died. Losing a child to death is devastating no matter the cause. I wish there was something I could say to comfort you at this terrible time. Hold your loved ones close and don't forget to take care of yourself, so you can be there for them. I hope you have other family and/or close friends who can give you support to help give you strength to get through this. I wish you peace and strength on this journey as your daughter and husband fight this terrible disease.

Sending you prayers and hugs.

Lorraine