Hi Caz.  I'm new to this forum so as a 'carer' myself for my daughter I know exactly the hopelessness we feel regarding our loved ones.  Can't offer any advice but want you to know others, going through similar circumstances feel your pain.  This is what has prompted me to let you know.  I've posted my first message under Noticebard  'mums and dads'.  

Hello Dekarl,

I have moved your own thread to the same topic area as CAZ1090's, Caring for Someone with Cancer. Noticeboard is more for events and I wanted to make sure your post wouldn't be missed by others who are  in a similar situation as you and who are, like CAZ1090, also looking after a loved one with cancer.  To make it even easier for anyone reading this, I thought I would post a link to Dekarl's thread which you can all find here.

Best wishes,

Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator