Hi. My dad has been diagnosed with metastatic bladder cancer, which is now in his bones and lung. He is starting radiotherapy soon, followed by chemo.
He lives on his own and I am the other end of the country to him. I'm coming up to look after him for radiotherapy and first round of chemo. We are assembling a rota of sorts between me and other family members. It's all tricky though and I am balancing it with caring for 2 small children as well. Not to mention a newish job.
Has anyone been in a similar situation? I'm anxious about how much time my dad has left and trying to do the very best I can to be positive. We thought he was doing really well as his initial bladder cancer was treated so well. Then all of a sudden this year it returned in all sorts of places.
If anyone has been through similar it would be good to hear tips on how to manage looking after someone when you are so far away. Even stuff like how long he might need help for after a round of chemo would be useful.