Dad got his results today & was told 6/9 months with out treatment or he could have a10 hour opp & 6 weeks of radiotherapy, we got to go to the QE hospital tomorrow to talk to the surgeon about all the pro's & con's.
Just wanted to wish you and your dad well today. Sounds like some difficult decisions need to be considered and dont envy either of you. Just wanted you to know I will be thinking of you today.
Sending best wishes and kind thoughts your way, Brian
Thanks Brian, was told he wouldn't pull through the opp which I already new this but wanted them to tell my Dad & not me,so going for radiotherapy but got to see what type it will be next week but we both know it's only a matter of time & enjoy each day at a time you take care x
Thanks for the update. Regarding the time scale they have given you, It is only a guestimate based on their experiance. I have known people who have been given weeks but have defied the odds and have lived for years. I can can advise is to make as many good memories as possible for this has helped me with the loss of my mother. When I get a sad mood , I think back to the laughter we shared and it really helped ease the pain. Take care, sending best wishes to you and your father, Brian
