anger towards my nan, so guilty

Hi everyone, nan finished her 5 day course of radiotherapy  to  the head last week. Shes had no side effect yet, but im awaiting for them to kick in.

She's  back on steroids as apparently  she shouldn't  of been taken off them. And started warfarin monday.

One question and my ultimate  frustration... is it ok to drink alcohol e.g Vodka? 

I cannot look at my nan in the face at the moment, she knows she has her macmillan appt today but shes managed to do 1/4 litre bottle of vodka. Everyone in my family  thinks it's  okay cos shes done so well not drinking. ( she was alcohol dependant for 5+ years)

This has made me sooo angry this morning, why would you do it!?!?

She csn hardly  walk properly as it is, what happens if she falls down  the stairs? Its her fault.  What if she has a seizure in the night and doesnt know cos she's  dosed with vodksa and sleepers? Is her fault. 

Sounds bad i hope she has blood tests today!

Sorry my morning rant, just had to write down how i feel considering everyones making excuses for my nan which i think aint acceptable. Hope everyone has a nice day!

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  • Hi Shay, I've been thinking about you and wondering how you are getting along with your Nan. I see you haven't posted for awhile. Are things any better for you? When you are able, come on to the forum and give us an update on your Nan, but also let us know how you are doing with everything that's going on.

    Take care.

    Lorraine 

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  • Hi Shay, I've been thinking about you and wondering how you are getting along with your Nan. I see you haven't posted for awhile. Are things any better for you? When you are able, come on to the forum and give us an update on your Nan, but also let us know how you are doing with everything that's going on.

    Take care.

    Lorraine 

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