TNBC - mum just got diagnosed with stage 2- 3 that's also in the lymph nodes. I'm so heartbroken and scared

My mum just got diagnosed with stage 2-3 triple negative breast cancer also in the lymph nodes a few days ago and I am so heartbroken and so scared. The plan is for a mastectomy and lymph nodes removal but I’m terrified she won’t make it. She has young grandchildren who are besotted with her and I get married this year I’m absolutely devastated.

  • A very warm welcome to Cancer Chat FutureMrsAshford, although I'm so sorry to hear about your mum.

    I know you must be contending with so many thoughts and emotions at the moment, especially with your wedding on the horizon, but if you can try not to let your mind run away from you. Much easier said than done, I know, but I hope this information we have on coping with cancer and managing anxiety will help to calm your mind whilst you process your mum's diagnosis.

    The positive of all of this is that the cancer has been found and a treatment plan is now in place. You can find out more about your mum's breast cancer treatment on our website but if it would help to talk things through with someone then do give our cancer nurses a call on 0808 800 4040, Monday - Friday between 9a.m - 5p.m. They will do all they can to support you and address any other questions or concerns you may have about your mum's diagnosis or treatment at this time.

    Our members know how scary and upsetting it can be to find out a loved one has cancer, so you are not alone, and hopefully some of them will stop by soon to share their experiences and advice.

    We're sending you all our strength and support FutureMrsAshford and wishing your mum all the best with her surgery.

    Kind regards,

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator