Hi Tunefil,

A very warm welcome to the forum.

This must be hard for you. There are different ways that you can seek help. Contact your GP, your husband's hospital care team, the hospice or a social worker. All four should be able to arrange the right sort of help for you, depending on your needs. We had carers coming in four times a day to attend to my mother-in-law's personal needs, when it all got too much for the family to cope. We were also offered someone to sit with her overnight, although we managed, without having to resort to this.

I do hope that you manage to get this situation sorted soon. Please keep in touch and let us know how you get on. We are always here for you.

Kind regards,

Jolamine xx