Hello Mimi70

I'm sorry to hear about your husband's diagnosis and the situation you find yourselves in. It's natural that you want to protect him as much as possible and that you're concerned about how this news will impact his mental well-being. 

Does your husband have a specialist cancer nurse? If so, then I'd really encourage you to talk with them about your concerns and what support can be put in place to help you both. If you have family or friends who are supporting you both, then do share your concerns with them. 

If it would help to talk things through with one of our nurses, then you're welcome to call them. I know they will be happy to listen and offer any advice, information and support they can. They're available Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm on 0808 800 4040. 

I hope that you can find the support you both need as you move forward. 

Sending you both my best wishes, 
Jenn
Cancer Chat moderator