Hello Pumpkin17

I'm so sorry to hear that your Mum has been going through treatment for breast cancer over the last few months. It's understandable that this is a really difficult time for you all, and natural that you're worried and anxious for your Mum. 

You mentioned in your post that you're struggling to balance homelife and school. I'm unsure how old you are, Pumpkin17, but I'd really encourage you to talk with your tutor or head of year about your home situation. There will be someone that you can talk to at school for support and they can also look to make any necessary adjustments regarding tests and deadlines. 

We have some information about taking care of yourself, which you may find helpfu lto read through Pumpkin17. I'd also suggest having a look at the website for a charity called Hope Support Services. Their role is to support young people who have a loved one with a serious illness and there are lots of options available for you to connect with people who understand. 

If you ever think it might help you to talk with one of our nurses, you're also welcome to call them. I know they will be happy to listen and offer any advice, information and support they can. They're available Monday to Friday 9am to 5pmon 0808 800 4040 (freephone). 

I know that this is a difficult time for you Pumpkin17. Try to just take each day as it comes and not look too far ahead into the future. Be kind to yourself and on the days when you feel things are particulalry difficult, reach out to those around you for support. We're here for you. 

Sending you and your Mum my best wishes, 
Jenn
Cancer Chat moderator