Hello Elou

I'm sorry to hear about all that you've been through over the last year. It sounds like it was a really difficult time with your partner being unwell and then the unexpected ending of your relationship. It's natural that you're feeling confused and upset by things. 

We know from the many posts we see here in the Cancer Chat community that a cancer diagnosis can bring out the best and worst in people's relationships. And sadly, sometimes relationships come to an end. I hope that you've been well supported by family and friends as you negotiate this difficult time. If you think it might help to talk with someone you could consider getting in touch with a charity such as Relate. 

I do hope that with the right help and support you're able to move forward Elou and find some happiness again. 

Best wishes, 
Jenn
Cancer Chat moderator