Our dad has been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer with a life expectancy of 6 - 9 months. We don't know what to expect or what happens next

Hi, my dad was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer 6 weeks ago, with an estimated 6-9 months life expectancy. They are not treating him as he is 78 with other health issues. We have done some research and are fully aware of how quick the decline can be.

He seems well at the moment but we really don't know what to expect next. We want to be mentally prepared but don't know what's coming next or how to look out for it.

  • Hello JoBudge

    I'm sorry to hear about your Dad's diagnosis of pancreatic cancer and that due to other health issues the specialists haven't been able to offer any treatment options. This is undoubtedly a difficult time for you all and understandable that you want to be as prepared as possible for how things might develop over the next few months. 

    Do you know if your Dad has been referred to the local palliative care team? In the first instance they can be a great source of help and support for you all as your Dad's health declines, helping you to access any equipment and care input that your Dad may need. They will also be able to discuss with your Dad what his preferences are for his final weeks and days. If your Dad hasn't been referred to them then do talk with his GP, or specialist, to ask for a referral. 

    You might also find it useful to give our nurses a call to talk through any questions that you might have. I know they will be happy to listen and offer any advice, information and support they can. They're available Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm on 0808 800 4040. 

    I do hope that while your Dad is still well you're able to spend some time together. 

    Keep in touch JoBudge and let us know how you're all getting on. We're here for you. 

    Sending you all our best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator 

  • Hi. Thanks for replying. Yes, he does have palliative care in place. Just visiting once a month at present as he still quite well overall. 

    However today his voice has changed and is very croaky and deep, is this systematic?

    Thanks again x

  • Hello JoBudge

    I'm sorry to hear that your Dad has experienced some changes with his voice today. It's understandable that you may be feeling concerned about this, but it's really difficult to say why this particular change has occurred. 

    Do give his GP a call if things don't improve, or if you are worried over the weekend you can call NHS 111 for advice and support. 

    It's good to hear that he already has the palliative care team involved. Do lean on them for support as your Dad's health declines. 

    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator