I let her know how much my family are thinking of her, send little messages to hopefully make her smile… I’m sending her a photo block of us both when three & up To no good, I talk about scheme younger & our Grandparents… I will send flowers but at the moment she said her house looks like a lovely fllorists shop - & she loves gardening, so has lots in her garden. 
I’d love to buy her something to do but don’t know where to start. 
I also feel I should now get in touch with my aunt & uncle, both elderly & not In good health themselves & my cousin. 
I just want to do the right thing.