Partner has had 3 interventions since last new year. Radio/chemotherapy weekly for six weeks. Further abnormal masses observed. Jan this year surgery to remove anus and surrounding tissue and coming to terms with stoma. Additional mass observed. Recent surgery to remove potion of ileum, removal of coccyx and back of vagina. Histology samples have revealed microscopic activity. More wait and see but this feels like death by a 1000 cuts - worried