New diagnosis of poorly differentiated lung adenocarcinoma T4 N3 M1c

Hi I don’t know if this is the place for me,but my partner has just had the diagnosis of

poorly differentiated lung adenocarcinoma T4 N3 M1c, we know that this is not a good diagnosis and I am so frightened for her.

we are waiting for a treatment plan how can all of this just suddenly appear! I’m very confused by all of it

  • Hi Paul.

    Sorry for my ignorance but what does poorly differentiate lung adenocarcinoma mean is it a cancer? 

    I'm so sorry to read your post. 

    Its heart breaking and how scared you must be feeling right now is horrible and I can relate to how you feel.

    The shock of the news is so hard to get your head around. 

    I hope you and your partner can talk openly with each other. 

    I don't know about you but I feel so alone right living with my husband who has cancer but I'm not alone as we have a huge friendship circle , but my head space and thoughts i feel alone. 

    Lots of time thinking can put you in a sad unhappy place.

    Happy to chat so please reach out if you fancy it.

    I sure could do with someone to chat to.