Scared my husband will die in pain

My husband has stage 4 bowel cancer. His liver is covered in tumours. He’s been given 2/3 months to live, although he’s had a first 50% dose of chemo to see if that has any effect. But he’s already very weak and fatigued. He sleeps most of the day. I’m so frightened. Obviously about losing the love of my life but, also, how he’s going to decline, what that will look like and whether he’ll be in pain. My heart is breaking. 

  • My husband has stage 4 oesophagal cancer that has spread to the liver and lungs.  We don't know how long he has.  Chemo starts next week which may help shrink the tumours, but he's already very frail and has started going to bed during the day.  In 36 years of marriage,  he'd never done that until 3 weeks ago.  I so understand how you must be feeling.   I'm also frightened.