My father in law was told in February he had an inoperable brain tumour. He’s 73 and lives alone. We all have to work full time, my husband does what he can every other day. His brother lives alone and is of little use as he would sooner do overtime than get involved. He was given quite positive news after the last chemo session that they might look at removing it as it’s responded well to treatment. He’s lost so much weight, isn’t washing or feeding himself or taking his tablets unless my husband physically feeds him and stays with him while he takes the tablets. We have young grandchildren and are doing nothing with them or our daughters as all of our free time is spent making sure he’s doing as he’s told BUT,  I can’t get my husband to focus on anything else, and it’s taking a toll on our relationship. I nursed my Dad through oesophageal cancer so I know what he’s going through. We are out at work on long shifts as we still have bills and a home to pay for. Can we get any outside help for him? Thankyou.