I have a question is the families fault if a relative becomes ill , you see visible deterioration, sever weigh loss , he still refused to go the doctor. I saw the decline over 4 years , when he was asked he denied anything was wrong ,

He was secretly self treating with herbal remedies, he now is terminal and sill won’t admit he’s got cancer . There is a feeling of quilt that more could have done, to help him. But he became aggressive when. Ask even what’s wrong? he still is not saying he has cancer .