Hi Cocobean and welcome to the Cancer Chat community.

I'm sorry to hear how long you have been battling cancer and how you are being treated by your in-laws. This must be incredibly upsetting.

It is really important to remember that none of your husband’s family living abroad will have the facts about your cancer, as your prognosis is between you and your consultant. It’s a difficult time for both you and your husband so it’s important you get him on side and explain how his family are making you feel. You might benefit from taking your husband along to your next appointment so that he can ask questions and hear from the consultant first hand which will help him understand the situation better, and if needed, relay this information to his family.

Quite a few of our members know just how challenging and isolating this journey can be without the support of friends and loved ones, so hopefully some of them will be along soon to share their stories and advice. You can also find out how to access support outside of your immediate family, by looking at the who can help page on our website.

I know you said you felt nervous about writing this, but I really do hope sharing how you are feeling in this safe space with others who understand what you are going through can bring you some comfort and help you feel slightly less alone at this time.

We are here for you Cocobean and sending all our strength and support your way.

Kind regards,

Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator