My husband has always been controlling been married 50 years never new what mood he would be in not talk for days always has to be in control for several years now he has had prostrate and bone cancer and he has got worse towards me saying he won’t be here long and I don’t care and I don’t look after him I cook and cater for him go too all appointments with him his family don’t want to know he is two different people in front of everyone you wouldn’t think its same person when I tell my family members they find it hard to believe because they see the meek side of him I am at my wits end