How can I best care for my husband

My husband was recently diagnosed with oesphageal cancer.  He has just had his first chemo and as a newcomer to all this, I am not entirely sure of the best way to care for him. 

Since he received his first cycle on Wednesday, he hasn't got out of bed. He is due another three cycles of chemo before a big operation.

His diet is limited anyway with what he can swallow and he is diabetic as well. I am finding it hard to do meals for him. We are both elderly and now I have just found out I need an operation. As things stand, I don't feel I can go ahead with the operation while he is having chemo. So he is feeling rough with the side effects of chemo and I am having to cope with feeling sick most of the time too.

Any advice would be appreciated. 

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  • Hello Prudence 

    Im sorry you are going through this and trying to support your husband too

    It is extra difficult for you. Wife hugs

    My hubby is similar to yours....

    Does hubby have a diabetic nurse? Contact them re his change in needs and diet 

    I use a blender and blitz the beejeebers out of everything including ready meals (add extra fluid/water to thin down) 

    And or protein shakes ( shop bought) or milky drinks whatever will stay down

    Ginger beer diet low sugar helps with sickness 

    Age uk helps anyone over 55, so contact them

    As mentioned Macmillian helped us sort out finances 

    Counselloring  etc

    Sorry its a bit disjointed 

    As a wife and carer it is hard and we put ourselves last but we are important too so take time to look after you too

    Sending kindest wishes to you both

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  • Hello Prudence 

    Im sorry you are going through this and trying to support your husband too

    It is extra difficult for you. Wife hugs

    My hubby is similar to yours....

    Does hubby have a diabetic nurse? Contact them re his change in needs and diet 

    I use a blender and blitz the beejeebers out of everything including ready meals (add extra fluid/water to thin down) 

    And or protein shakes ( shop bought) or milky drinks whatever will stay down

    Ginger beer diet low sugar helps with sickness 

    Age uk helps anyone over 55, so contact them

    As mentioned Macmillian helped us sort out finances 

    Counselloring  etc

    Sorry its a bit disjointed 

    As a wife and carer it is hard and we put ourselves last but we are important too so take time to look after you too

    Sending kindest wishes to you both

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