Welcome to the forum Lisa306 although I'm really sorry to hear your dad has been diagnosed with bladder cancer.
Finding out someone you love has cancer can be very difficult, but our members are here for you Lisa, and I'm sure it won't be long until some of them stop by to offer their support and advice.
You can find out more about advanced bladder cancer on our website, but if it would help to talk things through with one of our cancer nurses, they're available on 0808 800 4040, Monday - Friday between 9a.m - 5p.m. They're very insightful and will do all they can to answer your questions and support you at this time.
Be kind to yourself Lisa and remember, with us by your side, you will never be alone.
