Hi, my dad has oesophagus cancer too which has spread to his liver, we found out end of February and he has 6 rounds of chemo, done 2 but it’s making him so tired he is having a 3 week break before the next round.

I am struggling as my dad doesn’t want to know how long he has and won’t allow me to be told.

I am his only family and now his carer and it’s such a worry.

Its the not knowing but fearing the worst but trying to stay positive for them,

Its a journey no one ever wants to be on x

Hi im sorry you are going thru this 

It is your dads right to not know but you can speak to the nurses here to find out what to lok out for as time goes on which will help you understand what is happening 

If you can speak to a counsellor to get some support as his carer thst msy help you too at this time.

I hope knowing others understand how hard it is to care helps a bit 

Keep in touch if you need want to

Rb