Hi Rhubarbdragon,

It sounds like you're going through a really tough time and I hope you are as OK as can be. The effect on moods can be really hard for people - it is something that I'm sure others on here will be able to relate to. I can understand it must make things extra difficult for you.

I wanted to send a reply to your post so that a few more people should see it, and hopefully you'll get some more replies, particularly from anyone with similar experience to share.

Take care of yourself and as always we're always here whenever you need it.

Wishing you all the best,

Ben
Cancer Chat Moderator

Hi Ben thank you for acknowledging my post and how treatment and dealing with  cancer can impact moods....of course anyone with incurable cancer is going to be rightly angry upset scared and a million other things too.

The mood swings are difficult thankfully hubby has a counsellor atm and that helps. 

its hard to admit that these things happen people get embarrassed etc 

But I think the more we talk about it the stigma is reduced.

Thank you for being here