Caring for the ones we love.

I'm 72 found out my wife has incurable brain tumour and has been given 6 weeks to 2 months to live that was middle November,it's very hard with emotions but as time goes by I now treasure the time I have left with her,it's not easy but strangely enough I now feel we are closer than ever I know that's circumstances,but we do get quality time.veey hard at times to cope,but will be here for her to the end,yes it's tough support is not easy to accept, sometimes people want to know to much,others want to know nothing...after time now I see who I love every day and treasure our time together,no matter how long it is,...it's still our time and it's still us.thanks for reading 

  • We are in a similar position husband has liver cancer was told he had mths in may he wanted to do everything go everywhere now the way the weather is and his illness not possible he is sleeping a lot more but I am content knowing he's asleep because he's not sleeping of a night worrying about me and money I reasure him ok for a few days then he starts again told him I'm 78 have long term covid and copd there's enough  money  

  • Thank you for your message I try to reassure constantly to my wife,it's difficult but we get through the days every day as they come,I know people say stay strong but that's not as easy as it sounds,the one thing I remember is it's ok to be not ok,!now I understand what they mean that saying has helped me,but I still have my sad moments as we all do, but I try my best and I feel that's what's helps me...I hope that makes sense ,we also never say sorry to each other because it's no one's fault whatsoever...hard times yes .take care

  • Sending strength to both of you on these messages. It's so hard