We are in a similar position husband has liver cancer was told he had mths in may he wanted to do everything go everywhere now the way the weather is and his illness not possible he is sleeping a lot more but I am content knowing he's asleep because he's not sleeping of a night worrying about me and money I reasure him ok for a few days then he starts again told him I'm 78 have long term covid and copd there's enough  money  

Thank you for your message I try to reassure constantly to my wife,it's difficult but we get through the days every day as they come,I know people say stay strong but that's not as easy as it sounds,the one thing I remember is it's ok to be not ok,!now I understand what they mean that saying has helped me,but I still have my sad moments as we all do, but I try my best and I feel that's what's helps me...I hope that makes sense ,we also never say sorry to each other because it's no one's fault whatsoever...hard times yes .take care

Sending strength to both of you on these messages. It's so hard