My twin sisters husband is 42 and been diagnosed terminal with bowel cancer and lymphoma. He’s been in hospital 9 days and had 5 days of radio. They have 3 children. 4,8+9. This is tough and I’m writing as an experienced child carer of our mum. She had the countries first key hole kidney transplant (key hole) 20yrs ago. Since had cancer and bowel operation and still with us. 
I’m just asking for…. I don’t even know as I’m staying with my sister to help with this situation. It’s happed to quickly to him and he’s skin and bone in a month. He’s meant to start chemo to keep him here as long as possible. I get it’s rubbish but I think I just wanted to voice that this is rubbish