My partner has just been diagnosed

Hi, I am writing this for some advice and support please as this has completely been unexpected, and I would just like some understanding and support please. 
my partner was complaining of stomach cramps, constipation and sickness. He was backwards and forwards to Gp who did tests but nothing really showed. 
we went to A&E which they scanned him and it showed a tumour in his liver. Further scans showed a tumour in his liver, small intestines and the lining of the stomach. It was confirmed cancer. 
His biopsy is due this week, but how bad is this? I know an operation is out of the question at the moment, but has anyone been through this and had a good outcome. I am hoping the chemo will shrink the tumours or kill then of completely and he can have the operation. Can he live with this? How will it affect his quality of life? 
It is so scary as I can’t even contemplate the worst. When we are at the hospital I feel we are overloaded with information and when asked if we have questions I am still trying to digest the information. It’s not I till I have time to my self I think of all the questions. 
I am just hoping this reaches someone who is going through or has been through something similar and the realistic outcome. 

  • Hi Loo I'm sorry about your partners diagnosis. We too had been going to the doctors and having tests ..mri and CT and they now have found a tumor in his lung and prostate. He also has a few cancers just under his skin We met with the lung specialist on Friday and told us he has cancer but don't know which one was the primary one CUP. She said without treatment he's only got months to live  We are devastated it came as such a shock.We do now have a palliative nurse who takes us through all the long speeches from various specialist. We are waiting for a biopsy appointment and oncologist. But we are unsure whether he will be offered treatment because it's spread to the bones .

    I wish you positive thoughts and pray you get a positive outcome .  

    I feel your pain anxiety and sadness  

  • I am so sorry to hear this, hopefully after the biopsy they can come up with a treatment plan that will give him the best options. 
    the unknown is awful and massively effects everyone. 
    I wish you both well and sending positive thoughts .