My 85 year old mum currently has a 12cm lump on her head, secondary cancer from kidney cancer 4 years ago. She also has kidney failure and heart failure. She is very sad and depressed understandably. I look after her after work and at weekends. She has had this over a year now and it’s still growing. Nothing can be done. I want to be prepared for when she will need me more and how that might look. Does anyone have any experience of this kind of cancer? Much love to all who are suffering and their carers xx