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My husband has oesophagus cancer

Julie170572
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My husband has oesophagus cancer 2 weeks ago we went to his cancer appointment and basically the doctor told him he hasn’t long left we he said he shouldn’t be here please would someone please tell me what sort

of time scale we have and what I should do next to help him please thanks julie

  • Hello Julie170572

    I'm so very sorry to hear about your husband's diagnosis. Undoubtedly this was incredibly difficult news to hear and it's understandable that you have questions and concerns. 

    Has your husband been referred to the palliative care team? If so then give them a call and ask when someone will be in touch regarding your husband's diagnosis and the care and support you both need. If he hasn't been referred to the team or you're not sure then give his GP surgery a call today. 

    Our nurses are back in the office today (Friday) so I'd also suggest giving them a call. I know they will be happy to offer any advice, information and support they can to help you both. They're contactable on 0808 800 4040, Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm (excluding bank holidays). 

    I hope that you have family and friends around you who can support you both on this difficult journey. Don't be afraid to ask for help and support, even if it's just for the opportunity to have a cuppa with a friendly supportive shoulder. 

    Keep in touch Julie if you're able to. We're here for you. 

    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator 

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    Very sorry to hear this Julie. A cancer doctor told me that timescales are almost impossible to give because patients can 'rally'. When I pushed him he said; 'a few weeks'. Jenn has already given the best possible advice. Practically, you can certainly help by keeping your eye on your husband's medication. Sedation and pain relief will prevent discomfort and distress. Best wishes.

  • Offline in reply to Moderator Jenn

    Thankyou that’s so nice it’s just me and Ian why so difficult especially when the doctor said he should not be here we just need help sometimes I don’t know what to do thankyou so much for the reply julie

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