Hello shopgurl13, 

I am so sorry to hear about your husband's recent lung cancer diagnosis and that he is going to have his right lung removed. You can find out more about the surgery on our page on surgery for lung cancer and if you would like to ask our cancer nurses any question about this, they are available on this free number 0808 800 4040 - their helpline is open Monday to Friday from 9am to 5pm. 

It must be difficult for your husband at the moment having to deal with this cancer diagnosis especially as you mentioned he is neurodivergent so processing all these emotions that come with a new diagnosis is not an easy thing. Macmillan have a very useful page on the subject of Neurodiversity and cancer on their website where you will find out more about how to get information and support. Don't hesitate to get in touch too with organisations like the National Autistic Society who will be able to offer support and guidance and Autism Central have some useful tips relating to healthcare for autistic adults . You probably know your husband really well and are aware of his triggers and what may make him feel uncomfortable so it might be worth getting in touch with his medical team and giving them as much information about his autism as possible so that they can be prepared and find the best way to support him. 

I hope that you will also hear from others who have been in a similar place to your husband and have had to deal with cancer and autism and that they will tell you more about what helped them process the news of a cancer diagnosis and what tips they may have to cope with the different treatment steps. 

Best wishes to you and your husband during this challenging time, 

Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator