Hi Hazel4ever,

Welcome to Cancer Chat. I'm very sorry to hear of the situation with your mum. I hope you're getting on OK - I'm sure this must be a lot to deal with.

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Wishing you all the best,

Ben
Cancer Chat Moderator

Thankyou Ben

Not an easy time, as so many others navigate their way through the same fog, maybe different types of cancer, but ultimately all fused together in the onward journey into the unknown. 
my mum has decided she doesn’t want surgery, ( the Whipple procedure )although it hasn’t been offered anyway and has said she doesn’t want chemo. 
we, as a family, will support her wishes

thankyou for your response, much appreciated