Hi Trust, 

I noticed you haven't had a reply to your post just yet so I just wanted to quickly stop by to offer you my support and let you know your post has been seen.

I can't even begin to imagine how difficult and incredibly heart-breaking it must have been to lose your father this way and then find out your husband also has cancer. That is a lot to deal with in such a small space of time so it's completely understandable, and natural, to be feeling this way Trust, so do be kind to yourself and allow yourself the time and space you need to process your emotions. We have some tips and advice on coping with grief on our website, but if you feel you may need some extra support at this time it may be worth speaking to your GP or reaching out to a bereavement support charity such as Cruse or Sue Ryder. 

I hope it helps to know that a lot of our members have been in similar situations with their loved ones, so you are not alone Trust, and I'm sure you will receive some support and advice from them soon. If you would prefer to talk things through with one of our cancer nurses, they're available on 0808 800 4040, Monday - Friday between 9a.m - 5p.m. 

A very challenging journey lies ahead for you and your family, but we are here for you Trust and will support you every step of the way.

Kind regards,

Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

Thank you Steph

Condolences, I'm sorry you lost your dad and now have this horrible journey with your husband to go through. I hope it's the primary and that it's easily treated. Wishing you both all the luck x